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Andy Bruinewoud's avatar

Having to use real names would probably be a good start towards accountability.

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sji's avatar

I've tried a life without any social media, starting 4-5 years ago. No facething, no twitting, no insta, never touched tic-toc.

Life got better, especially my relationship with life, and people, and I have a large family, and lots of friends all over the world. I've experienced 0 downsides. I love my family but I don't miss seeing them "living the life", or being "blessed", in staged locations, lol. The "look-at-me!" of facething always seemed like more work than it was worth, a bit squirmy.

I sleep MUCH better; I'm less frustrated; I spend WAY more time in real time/the real world; I solve problems more effectively; my collaboration skills are better; I'm a better listener; my focus has improved by an order of magnitude. The use-case is BS... for me. In hindsight, it was snakeoil. Never, ever going back.

p.s. I became a much better stockbroker/portfolio manager when I stopped passively consuming news in 2002, and by better I mean 2 things:

1) my focus remained on the right things, and

2) I was less stressed and a better leader for my clients.

My suggestion: step 1 is to rescind the law that exempts SM companies from the responsibilities of a publisher. That they got away with this in the first place is a travesty; it unleashed harm for money, which a mature society should not accept.

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